10 Things you should never do after a breakup

Going through heartbreak from a breakup in a relationship can feel like being underwater when you need to breathe. We build our lives with someone we trust and care for, and then, in the blink of an eye, it’s all gone.
Breakup in a relationship

This can leave people feeling sorrow, anger, and some serious questions about themselves and the future. .
But you don't have to kill or worry yourself to death, that's how life is,sometimes we enjoy and other times we're hurt, human beings can change anytime ,its only God that never changes.
If you’re dealing with heartbreak and want to heal, Here are the things to do after a break up.

10 Things You Should Never Do After a Breakup:


1. Don’t hold a grudge.

Forgive them. Even if they’re not sorry. That doesn’t mean you have to get back together with them. You can forgive them, wish them well, and part ways. Forgiveness is an essential part of healing your broken heart. In order to move on, you need to forgive the other person.

2. Don’t be afraid to admit to your feelings..

Let it out. It’s normal to feel sad. Don’t feel weak or stupid if you cry or get upset. These things are normal. Going through grief is just another step along the path to recovery. Let yourself grieve.

3. Don’t expect to heal overnight..

If you expect to be completely healed in a day after being in a relationship for three-years, you could be sorely disappointed.

4. Don’t be so hard on yourself..

Give yourself some ‘me’ time. You’ve probably been in a relationship for a while. Now is the time to take a step back, look at your life, and move on to the next challenge. Everyone falls down. It’s how you get back up that defines you.

5. Don’t obsess over whose fault it was..

We all make mistakes. There are probably some things you wish you could change or take back. If so, focus on fixing those issues for your next relationship.

6. Don’t Speak out of Emotions..

Avoid doing and/or saying something that you will end up regretting! especially in front of whomever you broke up with.

7. Don’t add insult to injury..

Distance yourself from your ex. This includes social networking. You can’t heal if you’re constantly opening up old wounds. Think of it as cutting a wound open that has stopped bleeding and started closing.


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8. Don’t rush into another relationship..

Start dating other people once you feel ready again.
Don't just accept a new relationship immediately after your previous break up, you may not be able to cop with this new person out of depressions from your previous relationship, so all you have to do after a break up is to :
  • Relax your mind first
  • Forget about the happy times with your ex for this will tend to distract you in life by making your wounds fresh everyday,
  • Move on with your life for some times before accepting another relationship.
Then after these ,you can now happily accept a new person for a relationship.

9. Don’t compare everyone else to your ex..

A lot of times, we keep ourselves from entering into new relationships because we are looking for someone just like the one who has already hurt us. (sad but true) or we are looking for that picture perfect man who can never hurt us, that may be impossible at times,all you have to do is to open up an accept the one that came for us and trust him/her with care.

10. Don’t be afraid to love again..

You have to open yourself up to possible heartbreak if you want to love again. But it’s worth it. Allow God to place your heart in the hands of the right person and He’ll reward you infinitely.
Don't use because your hurt or disappointed to deprive yourself of love or another relationship.
you just have to be careful this time .
Finally I wish you a beautiful relationship with your new partner.

Breakup Quotes from the author

A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself to fix it. If your love does not work with that person, it just means that someone else loves you more.
So don't kill yourself over a breakup , its simply a way of finding the right person for you.
Secondly

There are certain people who are not meant to fit in your life, no matter how much you want them to be. If someone really loves you, they wouldn’t let you slip away no matter how big the situation is.

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